The power of helping others
Many times in our lives we reach a point when we are overwhelmed by situations around us. This could be a success or a failure situation. However, the latter is more common. Whether it is a success or failure situation, we need some help. I know you may be asking; why would I need help when I succeed in doing something that has been giving me sleepless nights? Others may be saying; “it’s only failures who need help!” Well I can understand where you are standing. But the truth is whether we all need some form of help whether we find ourselves in a success or failure situation. It might be obvious to understand why someone who has failed in something may need help but that may not be the same situation for another person who has succeeded in accomplishing a certain task.
So why would a successful person need help?
The reason is very simple but vital. You need to pay good attention to it. If you succeed in accomplishing a given task, you need help to manage your success so that you continue being successful! Have you ever heard of lottery winner who runs broke just few months after the lottery? I’m sure many of you have heard of people who attained success at one point but then lost it all. Why? Because they did not manage their success well! If you know the common phrase that, “No man is an Island!” then you now understand why you need help even though you might have just achieved a great fete.
Is failing to attain a target means a defeat in life?
Absolutely not! I remember, one of my high school teachers once said, ” A man is defeated only if he accepts defeat!” To me, failing to meet a target is normal but accepting failure is abnormal! All you need is a reflection on the process that led to “failure” and a little help from another human being which you should not be shy to ask for. After all, no man is an island and that includes you!
Develop the habit of helping others to solve your own challenges
Have you ever though of how a president would lead a country if he/she was to do it alone? How about a CEO of a company? Virtually it would be impossible! It should be encouraging to know that no one can do it alone and therefore you should be free to ask help from others. Interestingly, if you are willing to help others then you will also find it easier to solve your own challenges. This has been proven over and over. In my lifetime, where I have exercised generosity the most is where I have also got the most returns! Surprise? You shouldn’t be. The law of success is very simple, create solutions for others and you will find solutions to your own challenges.
You are invited
Here at nihetu, we are inviting you to help empower others to transcend their limitations and in turn you will be able to transcend your own boundaries. It is very simple; there are millions of people who are looking for ways to overcome challenges in their lives and break “new” grounds. You can help these people transcend their limitations by providing solutions to their challenges. This can be in health, education, finances or other life aspects. How? Provide practical ways how you solved or how you can solve such a challenge. We believe that humans have infinite power to help fellow humans only if we can harness the full power of helping one another. You can contact us or simply comment on the posts on the site.